To Those That Have Passed Through...

 By: Connie J..., August 2, 2024

...my life; and for those, yet to come - no matter the amount of time we were involved, you will always be a part of who I'm becoming, on a daily basis.

Whether healthy OR toxic, just know you're woven into my very patchwork.

Because of my childhood, I often fought way too hard to keep people in my life - I was so needy; and many of the ones I fought for were SO toxic. I'm not going to list them - but, they, too, play a part in the person I've become.

That's one thing many people try to do - ignore the bad (toxic) situations from their past, and just "go on with their lives"; never seeing the influence (good OR bad) that they have in their current life.

I see, and analyze EVERYTHING in my life to see it's purpose; and will eventually weed out what (or who) needs to be removed. It's not about anyone else but me. I have worked very hard to get to that point.

Do you see changes that need to be made in YOUR life? Is it time for another "growth spurt"? Only you have that power - is it time to utilize it?

Thank you, and have a good day, and be safe... #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #dviseverywhere #domesticviolence #growin2024 #awareness #protectyourself #besafe

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this post, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, and it just "clicks"?

*I would love the opportunity to share YOUR ideas in a Blog post. Please send them to Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com; or through Ozer email, ozerministries@att.net.

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