I remember one time, a man accidentally clicked the handle on a paint sprayer, spraying white paint dots all over his month-old navy blue station wagon - and my father NEVER
He called him a heck of an ignoramus (over and over) - which was fair, but that was about it.
However, I often saw him eviscerate my Mother with the words he used, just by his condescending tone of voice;
and again, NEVER swearing.
It's the motivation of control and manipulation, that makes words abusive.
My own personal favorite, is when someone follows up a derogatory remark with, "You know I'm only joking,
right?"; when you take offense to what they said.
My theory is, you do NOT get to tell me if something feels abusive to me, or not - am I right??!
Does any of this ring true with you? What examples of non-swearing
abuse have you been tolerating?
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