May. 17, 2021

Settling... (Connie J...)

Think about your current relationship, friendships, etc. Are you able to be true to yourself, and share your feelings about everything, with those you are closest to? Who you really are, in every setting? Or do you feel like you are walking on eggshells, sometimes?

If not, are you "settling"; or are you thriving? Could those relationships be improved by you sharing your true feelings or thoughts; or would they be destroyed if you were honest about how you felt?

I have had relationships over the years dwindle and lose their spark, because I could not be true to myself. My circle has shrunk dramatically, over the last few years, because I have been honest. I seek this in all my relationships - if not, I would rather be alone.

I have had friends say they could not be alone; and I respect their choices - I cannot do that, anymore.

I'm asking you to just think, and make sure you are NOT just "settling"...

Have a good day, and be safe... #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #walkinTHEIRshoes #EtSoV

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, that makes the difference? #walkinTHEIRshoes 

*I will be sharing a "What If..." post on the first Monday, of every month. I would love to share YOUR "what ifs". Please send your "What If..." ideas to Connie J... -; or through Ozer, at the website or email,

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